Couples always say I love you to each other all the time but some never put any action to it. Now there are those who do put action behind this word love but only in material things. I want to elevate your thinking today and it is a key component to any relationship. Trust is what I would like to discuss with you today. You show your love by releasing trust. Showing love is not just in material things but it is your willingness to hold on to your trust but to let it go to the one you love. So, when you tell your spouse that I trust you and proceed to check their emails, bank statements, cell phones, and having your best friend who is single by the way, spy on your man or woman, is no excuse. Ok I know that there were some issues in the past where you trust was violated but let me remind you that you chose to forgive them, which meant that from that moment forward, they were given a clean slate. So, you can't use that as an excuse anymore.
Either you are going to trust them or not! You are not her daddy man and you are not his mama lady. So of this lack of trust has to do with control which I encourage you to read my other blog on that subject. You can't say that you love her or him and do the things listed about. This is how your relationship is going to survive. Having true trust is like the body needing water in order to function correctly. One part is you intestines. If you don't drink enough water, you can get backed up and unable to poop like you should. The water softens things up down there so that you don't get sick. Many of you right now are suffering a back up in your relationship and its shutting down fast. True trust will relieve you of all the junk of the past so that you and your spouse can a healthy relationship. So remember this before you are tempted to spy on your mate or do something without their knowledge, Trust Is A Must!
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