Trust Is A Must

  Couples always say I love you to each other all the time but some never put any action to it. Now there are those who do put action behind this word love but only in material things. I want to elevate your thinking today and it is a key component to any relationship. Trust is what I would like to discuss with you today. You show your love by releasing trust. Showing love is not just in material things but it is your willingness to hold on to your trust but to let it go to the one you love. So, when you tell your spouse that I trust you and proceed to check their emails, bank statements, cell phones, and having your best friend who is single by the way, spy on your man or woman, is no excuse. Ok I know that there were some issues in the past where you trust was violated but let me remind you that  you chose to forgive them, which meant that from that moment forward, they were given a clean slate. So, you can't use that as an excuse anymore.

Either you are going to trust them or not! You are not her daddy man and you are not his mama lady. So of this lack of trust has to do with control which I encourage you to read my other blog on that subject. You can't say that you love her or him and do the things listed about. This is how your relationship is going to survive. Having true trust is like the body needing water in order to function correctly. One part is you intestines. If you don't drink enough water, you can get backed up and unable to poop like you should. The water softens things up down there so that you don't get sick. Many of you right now are suffering a back up in your relationship and its shutting down fast. True trust will relieve you of all the junk of the past so that you and your spouse can a healthy relationship. So remember this before you are tempted to spy on your mate or do something without their knowledge, Trust Is A Must!

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Do you Know Your Gift?

Do you know your gift? I am convinced through the word of God at the core of every issue that arises in married relationships is a lack of understand of the gift. In 1Corinthians Chapter 7, Paul says that some are given the gift to be married and others the gift to be single. My prayer is that you will find strength and healing through this teaching.

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It's Never Too Late! Steps To Restoring Your Relationships

Many of us have gone through some hard times in our relationships and the only solution the church has given was to just pray. Well I shared some key steps, that will help you restore your relationships while praying. Be blessed!!!


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Control

Everybody wants to have control not just over their own lives but over others as well. I mean it gives them a sense of power and domination.  "Nobody can tell me what to do", is their motto and standard by which they live their lives. However there is one problem with control that many of us seem to overlook. It means nothing when you are in a relationship and as a matter of fact, this type of control really goes out the door. One of the most damaging things that can happen in a relationship is when a person male/female allow their controlling issues to be the standard of how they operate or function in their relationship. I have a test for those of you who are saying right now, "I don't have controlling issues". The next time you and your spouse, girlfriend, or boyfriend go out, let them drive and you sit in the passenger sit. If you can sit there without being a backseat driver (giving directions to a familiar place, telling them how to drive, touching the windshield wipers, etc...) then you have passed the test. However if you can't ride without doing these things I named, then my friend, you have controlling issues. So, the question you must ask yourself is how did this all begin? Most of our habits or should I say actions are learned behavior which means that we watched and study mom, dad, auntie, uncle, grandma, or grandpa behavior and we soaked it up like a sponge. Maybe you seen someone abused and you said to yourself "I will never let that happen to me". For some of you, your innocence was taking and because of that horrible moment, you have embraced and are using control as your first line of defense. In order for you to overcome controlling behaviors, you must simply make a decision to change by asking yourself the follow questions:

• Am I worth the change?
• Do I love myself to change?
• Is my relationship with my spouse worth the change?
• Do I love my spouse?

I specifically started with you asking questions about yourself because if you don't care or love you, there is no way you can truly love someone else. My prayer is that you would seriously consider what was written in this blog and be the one to start a new trend of health and wholeness in your family as relates to relationship. Blessings Brian P

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